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While I received a decent paycheck, I was always broke at the end of the month. I had no savings, no financial commitments. I swiped my debit card, watched the number go down, and said, “Next month, I will start saving.”
Does that sound familiar?
When I gave up trying to “get rich quick” schemes and instead developed strong money-making habits that gradually but surely compound over time, that cycle eventually ended.
This isn’t a theory-laden list. It is a deeply personal breakdown of what worked for me and what I have seen work for countless others. I have interviewed, advised, or learned from.
1. Paying Yourself First (Even When It Hurts)
When I first read the advice “pay yourself first,” I ignored it. I assumed, “How can I save first when I have bills to pay?”. This is my mistake. Everything changed when I reversed that logic. I set up a $300 automatic transfer into a separate savings account the day after payday. It hurt initially, but soon, I learned to live on what was left.
That account? It grew to over $10,000 in two years-money I later used to start a side business that doubled my income.
“Automate savings the way your landlord automates rent collection without emotion or exception.”
2. Tracked Every Dollar for 90 Days And It Blew Your Mind
If you can’t measure it, you can’t improve it. I monitored every dollar I spent for a full 90 days. Everything from groceries to coffee, hasty Amazon purchases, gas, and tips.
The shocking thing is that I discovered I was spending more than $150 a month on food delivery and an additional $100 on irregular memberships that I never used.
Every month, I freed up more than $250 by cancelling and switching. My first actual investing fund was spending money on unnecessary things.
Here is the right habit tip that helps you: make use of Google Sheets, YNAB, or Notion. Your memory is not meant for numbers. It is meant for feelings.
3. Pick to Build Skills, Not Just Save Pennies
At one point, I was obsessed with saving. But then I understood that you can only save so much; you can earn much more. I decided to develop skills like content marketing and freelancing, two highly sought-after talents. I built a portfolio while giving up Netflix on weekends for three months.
I secured my first freelance client in 90 days, and they paid me $400 a month. That side project earned me over $25,000 in a year.
You should remember that financial growth improved as a result of smarter earning, not of cutting back.
Here is the best habit tip for you that instead of spending 2 hours watching YouTube, spend 1 hour learning how to make YouTube videos that earn.
4. Don’t Let Lifestyle Inflation Steal Your Progress
So, my first initial impulse after receiving my first significant raise was to update my apartment, car, and outfit. However, I remembered something I read in the Psychology of Money: “Wealth is what you don’t see.” That stuck with me. Instead of spending more, I kept 80% of my lifestyle the same and immediately invested 25% of the raise. This small discipline helped my net worth grow more in 18 months than in the previous 4 years.
5. Build an Emergency Fund To Save You In a Negative Situation
Life doesn’t always go as planned. When I suddenly lost a significant freelance client, my main source of income, I had to learn this lesson the hard way. A few weeks later, I received an unforeseen medical cost of $1,200. It might have caused disastrous financial devastation. However, I didn’t need to borrow money or swipe a credit card because I have gradually accumulated a $5,000 emergency fund over the decades. Without financial panic, I managed myself in a negative situation, remained calm, and concentrated on getting better.
Here is the best habit tip you should apply: Build 3 to 6 months of living expenses in a high-yield savings account. It may not be glamorous, but it serves as a shield for your finances.
6. Surrounding Yourself with Financially Conscious People
Firstly, you should unfollow Instagram accounts that glorify reckless spending and join finance communities. You should follow creators who discuss budgeting, investing, and saving money.
I stopped taking money advice from broke friends and started following people who had financial peace and results, not just loud opinions. Books like Rich Dad Poor Dad, I Will Teach You To Be Rich, and Die With Zero changed my mindset.
But it was real conversations with financially smart peers that gave me the push to act.
I was able to normalize investing, saving, and long-term planning because of environmental change. Your financial future reflects the company you keep; your friends often shape your money mindset.
Proximity is power. Choose your circle with intention.
7. Treat Your Time Like Currency
I realized that time, much like money, once spent, never returns. I was losing out on growth with every hour I spent on social media. I therefore started to invest each hour carefully, treating it like cash. “Would the financially free version of me waste this hour?” I asked myself. That mindset shift led me to create content, reach out to clients, and develop skills that directly increased my income and opportunities.
8. Ditch Your High-Interest Debt Permanently
At one point, I carried $1,800 in credit card debt at 19% interest. I was losing money without realizing it. I started by clearing the smallest debts first, which gave me the motivation and drive to tackle the larger ones, following the snowball strategy. Since then, I have not touched credit card debt. I use credit only for points, and I pay it off every single month, no exception.
9. Build Multiple Sources of Income (Slowly, Not All at Once)
I didn’t create multiple income streams overnight; it was a slow, thoughtful journey. I began with a standard full-time job, then slowly took on freelance writing gigs during weekends. Over time, I put money into dividend-yielding ETFs to build passive income, and eventually, I introduced a small digital product of my own.
Today, these four sources provide me with financial security. None of them makes me rich alone, but combined, they have made my income more secure and resilient.
I want to suggest a few sources of income you should know:
- Freelance writing
- YouTube
- Digital product sales
- Affiliate income
- Dividends from income funds
10. Give Yourself Every Dollar a Purpose
I sit down with my budget at the end of each month and ask: “Did every dollar I made contribute to my independence or future development?” If the outcome isn’t right, I make adjustments. I am not frugal. I travel, eat out, and gift generously, but everything is intentional, not impulsive.
What I Wish I Knew Earlier
I used to believe that only the lucky or those from wealthy families might be wealthy. I didn’t realize earlier that consistent small habits have a bigger impact than earning a high income. Saving just $15/month at 20 can beat earning $1,200/month at 40 if you don’t manage money wisely. It is important to know that time and discipline matter far more than a big paycheck.
A Challenge That Changed My Life: The 30-Day Rule
I waited 30 days before purchasing anything pricey. After 30 days, if I still wanted it and could afford it without using any of my funds. I bought it.
I cut back on more than 90% of my pointless purchases, which is easily hundreds of dollars saved.
Final Thoughts
There is no shortcut or overnight formula, just steady and consistent habits that may seem dull but build powerful results over time. 10 habits aren’t just tips, they are decisions I made, often when no one was watching, that changed my financial trajectory forever.
You are free, focused, and no longer afraid of money, even if you are not wealthy by any lavish standards, which is more valuable than any bank account number.
What is your next step: Choose one habit from the list above as your next step. For 30 days, do it consistently and monitor the effect. Next month, add another and then so on.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are money habits?
Money habits are the regular actions and decisions you make about earning, spending, saving, and managing money. Such habits can be positive, like setting aside savings consistently or planning a budget, or negative, such as spending beyond your means or neglecting to pay bills on time. Your money habits shape your financial health and future over time.
What is the 50/30/20 rule of money?
Allocate 50% of your earnings toward essential expenses such as rent and utility bills, set aside 30% for personal desires like dining out or shopping, and reserve the remaining 20% for savings and paying off debt.
How to plan your salary?
Split your income following the 50/30/20 guideline: allocate 50% to essentials, 30% to lifestyle choices, and 20% to savings or investments to maintain strong financial health.
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